Beyond Therapy: Unlocking Your Potential with Coaching Services

Some of you may have noticed, the website has changed and have seen the announcement on social media that Samantha now offers coaching and consulting services alongside therapy! If you are new here, welcome! Samantha is working to be more proactive with posting about her services to better service existing and potential clients as well as general public who comes across her page looking to read something interesting.

Samantha has provided mental health therapy for several years to varying ages from children to adults, ranging from general anxiety to significant trauma. Samantha has decided to offer coaching services as a way to help others who may not have a clinical need but could still benefit from having an individual to work with in meeting their goals. While this means Samantha will designate hours toward coaching clients and lower the amount available for future therapy clients, she has decided that this is the best long-term goal, to avoid personal burnout.

Samantha is also partnering with outside organizations such as Oneida Nation Art Community to provide open studio groups during conferences and helping out with local behavioral health facilities to share what art therapy is and how it can be beneficial alongside other treatments. If you or your organization would be interested in hearing more regarding hosting groups and or formal lunch and learns, feel free to reach out.

So, let’s talk Coaching – What is it?

First, the idea of seeking help for personal growth with a focus on the transformative power of coaching services! Coaching is a proactive and goal-oriented type of assistance. There are clear objectives, a structured framework for progress. This dynamic interaction distinguishes coaching from the more introspective nature of therapy. Coaching has realistic tangible, and measurable objectives, creating a roadmap for personal and professional development. This goal-oriented focus fosters a sense of purpose and direction in the client’s journey. Coaches empower clients to take actionable steps, fostering a sense of self-efficacy and personal responsibility.

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Some examples of coaching goals include:

Career Development:

  • Goal: Secure a Leadership Position in the Next 12 Months
    • Action Steps: Develop leadership skills, enhance decision-making abilities, and create a strategic career plan.
  • Goal: Transition to a New Career Field
    • Action Steps: Identify transferable skills, explore relevant education or training, and create a job search strategy.

Health and Fitness:

  • Goal: Achieve and Maintain a Healthy Weight
    • Action Steps: Create a sustainable nutrition plan, establish a regular exercise routine, and track progress.
  • Goal: Reduce Stress and Improve Mental Well-being
    • Action Steps: Incorporate mindfulness practices, establish healthy coping mechanisms, and identify sources of stress.

Academic and Learning Goals:

  • Goal: Complete a Professional Certification Program
    • Action Steps: Research suitable programs, create a study plan, and allocate dedicated time for coursework.
  • Goal: Improve Time Management for Academic Success
    • Action Steps: Create a study schedule, prioritize tasks, and develop effective time-management habits.

While therapy often explores past experiences and emotions to promote healing, coaching is primarily future oriented. It concentrates on setting and achieving specific goals, developing skills, and enhancing performance. While therapy is more about resolving emotional issues, coaching is about unlocking potential and optimizing performance.

The coach-client relationship is collaborative, with the coach acting as a facilitator for the client’s growth. Coaches use powerful questioning, active listening, and feedback to help clients gain clarity, set goals, and take actionable steps toward their objectives. This partnership is built on trust and a shared commitment to the client’s success.

Therapy has Emphasis on Emotional Processing, Past Experiences and Clients are accountable for working on self-awareness, implementing coping strategies, and participating in therapeutic exercises to promote psychological well-being.

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Coaching has concrete actionable plans, external accountability partners are encouraged, measurable benchmarks and milestones with clients, milestone check-ins to make sure client is on track with their tangible goals, intentional choices without being in a situation where the past is preventing them from moving forward.

Finding the right coach is a crucial step in the personal development journey!

As when choosing a therapist, it is recommended you request a consult or discovery call to make sure you both align with your needs and goals. Here are different topics to keep in mind when choosing a coach and or coaching program:

  • Have clear goals in mind
  • Research Coach Specializations
  • Consider Coaching Styles
  • Review Credentials and Experience
  • Seek Personal Compatibility
  • Check for Alignment of Values
  • Ask About Coaching Approach and Techniques
  • Discuss Accountability Structures
  • Explore Flexibility and Accessibility
  • Review Cost and Investment
  • Ask for References or Testimonials

Remember! Finding the right coach is a personalized process.

It’s okay to take the time needed to make an informed decision. Whether it is Therapy or Coaching, the goal is to establish a professional relationship that empowers you to achieve your personal and professional needs.

This is enough for now, but feel free to check back in for more on my “what is coaching?” series!

Importance of water

Did you know……

By the time you notice headaches your body is already in beginning stages of dehydration? Not drinking enough water can cause headaches, stomach cramps, muscle cramps, dizziness, and so many other things. Your body is made up majority of water and you use a lot of during the day just by sweating, urinating, breathing, and talking. For many adults it’s good to drink 8 -8oz cups or 64 ounces of water throughout the day. If one is active more water is good. Sipping throughout the day or minimum cup of water when waking, eating and sleeping is better than none at all.

The biggest thing many clients complain about are headaches and difficulty sleeping. The biggest factor in common is not drinking water. If you experience headaches and don’t have any known medical condition, try Incorporating a few cups of water throughout your day and see if that makes a difference.

I upgraded my bottle to 64 oz today! Start small and build up, help your body adjust slowly if not drinking much at all.

New me 2023, hey… it rhymes

Evening everyone! We are officially into 2023.  Have you created any new year’s resolutions? Or maybe general plans of what you want to do differently this year as opposed to last year? Some people want to try new things in general and set goals of one new thing a month/a week/a day pending their work/life balance schedule.

For me, last year was all about trying to become healthier. In December 2021 I tried on a pair of jeans and realized they didn’t fit! My yoga pants had deceived me into stretching with me and helping me believe I hadn’t gained much weight.   So, I was determined to fit back into my old clothes, I tried different stepping challenges, made it to my chiropractor regularly, and started a new nutrition program. I’m quite pleased with the latest results, and it’s re-sparking my interest to take a class on nutrition or functional medicine!

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My growth over these last few months alone has felt amazing, and I’m so proud of myself for sticking to this program despite its ups and downs (although it really isn’t that difficult). I have more energy and am down quite a bit of weight with more to go. I’m not going to say what this program is, as I don’t want you to go immediately to doctor google and brush it off because of the meal plan price.  I was just ready when it was offered to me, it was offered by an old friend I grew up with and she had checked in with me for two years before I finally was ready.  Work was in a good place, I’m in charge of my own schedule and able to take time for myself, and it replaced my normal meal budget, so I figured what the heck give it a try.  Needless to say, I’m about 3 months in and so glad I did it. I’m learning to eat better, its easy prepackaged meals so I’m not calculating carbs.  Has a variety of things and encourages cooking.  As I said, I’m learning so many new things and loving where this is going. But I definitely had to be in the right mindset and willing to be told what to do and how to do it and try something new with the hope of it working, try someone else’s way without letting myself get in the way.

My professional and somewhat personal goals for this year are to look into some health programs, maybe take a class or two so I can use the knowledge and science behind our bodies and how nutrition impacts it, with the growth I’ve experienced learning about myself (yes the program requires reading, reflection and journaling) as well as socially (my coach encourages me to share my story on social media in a private community with others in the program as well as my main profile and engage with people more, build friendships which has been hard for me in the past with my anxiety). 

I know everyone has different experience with diets, meal plans, and our bodies are all different as well, so this program gave me no promises.  To me this is a lifestyle change, and now that I have energy, and feel healthy for the first time in most of my life, I’m truly excited to see what else this year brings with my new habits and tastebuds!

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Comment below what some of your 2023 goals are! If you would like to ask questions about my health journey or talk about your own health journey and where you are at, also feel free to comment or submit the “contact us” form on the main page.