How to Prepare for Stress Around the Election and Differences of Opinion

Election seasons can be stressful, especially when strong opinions and political divides come into play. As the upcoming presidential election approaches, it’s common for people to feel overwhelmed by news, discussions, and debates. Additionally, conversations with friends, family, or colleagues who hold differing views can lead to tension. Here are some ways to prepare for and manage election-related stress while navigating differences of opinion.

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1. Set Boundaries with Media Consumption

Constant exposure to political news and debates can fuel anxiety and stress. While staying informed is important, it’s equally important to limit your intake. Set specific times for checking news and avoid doom-scrolling. If you find social media overwhelming, consider muting certain topics or stepping away from platforms for a while. Protecting your mental health should be a priority.

2. Practice Self-Care

Election seasons can be emotionally taxing, especially when issues close to your heart are at stake. Make time for self-care, whether it’s taking a walk, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in hobbies that help you recharge. Establishing routines that allow for moments of calm will help you stay grounded, even amidst political noise.

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3. Engage in Constructive Conversations

Talking about politics doesn’t have to turn into a heated argument. Approach discussions with empathy and curiosity. Instead of trying to “win” the conversation, focus on understanding where the other person is coming from. Asking open-ended questions and listening without interrupting can help keep the conversation respectful, even when you disagree. Acknowledging that people’s experiences shape their beliefs can foster understanding and reduce tension.

4. Set Boundaries with Loved Ones

If political discussions are too emotionally charged, it’s okay to set boundaries. Let friends and family know that you’d prefer to avoid political conversations if they become stressful or unproductive. Respecting each other’s limits and agreeing to disagree can help maintain relationships without letting politics take over.

5. Stay Grounded in Your Values

During an election season, it’s easy to feel like your personal values are being challenged or that you’re under pressure to change your views. Stay true to your values while remaining open to learning. Focus on what you can control—your vote, your actions, and how you treat others. Letting go of the need to convince others of your position can reduce stress and frustration.

6. Take Action

If you feel powerless during the election, find ways to channel your energy into meaningful action. Volunteering for a cause or a campaign you believe in, donating to organizations that support your values, or simply having conversations with people who are undecided can give you a sense of agency. Taking action, no matter how small, can provide relief from election-related anxiety.

7. Prepare for Post-Election Conversations

The outcome of the election may lead to further debates or celebrations depending on who you talk to. Be prepared to handle post-election discussions with the same grace and empathy as before. If the outcome is emotionally difficult for you, give yourself time to process it before engaging in conversations. Similarly, if your side “wins,” approach those who may feel disappointed with sensitivity.

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8. Know When to Step Away

If the stress of the election becomes overwhelming, it’s important to know when to step away from conversations, media, or even social gatherings. You don’t need to be constantly involved in the political conversation to care about the outcome. Taking breaks for your mental and emotional well-being is essential.


Navigating the stress of an election and differences of opinion can be challenging, but with the right strategies in place, you can maintain your peace of mind. Focus on what matters most to you, protect your mental health, and remember that it’s possible to respectfully coexist with differing perspectives.

Quotes which inspire us

Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

“Life is Like a box of chocolates- you never know what your gonna get”- Forrest Gump
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Thinking about difficult times being like variety of chocolates can sometimes help me get through difficult moments – being a business owner I wear a lot of hats and experiences a lot of challenges out of my control. However, I know I can get through things, and I ask for help when necessary. I am thankful for those I have found along the way to help me keep going when I get that ill tasting nugget and look forward to the sweeter times.

Here are some other quotes I found when searching inspirational quotes that spoke to me!

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” – Wayne Gretzky

“Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” – Theodore Roosevelt

“Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot, but make it hot by striking.” – William Butler Yeats

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These quotes highlight the importance of perseverance, passion, and taking action to achieve success and fulfillment. There are many quotes regarding success and failure that I personally do not agree with- and that’s ok! We are each unique individuals, and per our experiences our perception of situations we are faced with will be seen differently from anyone else. Might I be seen as negative if I don’t agree or see a statement as positive because of my experiences? Yes, because I cannot control how others think or perceive what they are shown. I prefer to be seen as realistic as unfortunately we don’t live in a perfect world, however I can understand why someone sees my view as negative and can accept that we have different views and opinions.

What are inspirational quotes that speak to you, have helped you reach your goals or keep going when times are rough? Comment below to help others build their own list.

Intensives, Workshops, Support groups- What are the Differences?

While Coaching services are different from Therapy services, they may still be very beneficial to influencing one’s quality of life as a supplement to therapy. Two known barriers however to attending is insurance not covering or reimbursing, and financial cost can be a challenge. When searching for any support group, workshop or intensive it is good to know the differences in what they are to make sure the financial value is right for you.

Many providers or coaches will give a brief description of what they are in their websites – most usually a description of the topic of the event so you know the brief general idea of what you are signing up for and length of time, and cost. The main differences between a therapy intensive, a workshop, and a support group led by a professional in that field – lie in their structure, purpose, and methods of engagement:

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Therapy Intensive

  • Depth and Duration: Therapy intensives are usually immersive and in-depth sessions that span several hours, days, or even weeks. They provide concentrated, focused therapeutic work.
  • Personalized Treatment: Often involves individualized attention and tailored therapeutic interventions to address specific issues or challenges.
  • Goals: Aimed at making significant progress or breakthroughs in a short amount of time. It may focus on trauma, relationship issues, or other deep-seated psychological concerns.
  • Methods: Utilizes various therapeutic techniques depending on the specific needs of the participants, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, or somatic experiencing.
    • Therapy intensives are designed to be deeply therapeutic without being traumatizing by incorporating several key principles and strategies:
      • Skilled Facilitation
        • Experienced professional, skilled in managing the intensity of sessions and can adjust the pace and approach based on real-time needs
        • trauma informed care- recognizes signs of distress and responds appropriately.
      • Safe and Supportive Environment
      • Structured Approach
        • Clear boundaries, preparation and integration
      • Pacing and Flexibility
        • Gradual exposure to topics and flexible interventions based on real-time feedback from participants
      • Focus on Resilience and Strength
        • Empowerment and Skill Building
      • Holistic Approach
        • Body mind connection
        • Supportive therapies like Art Therapy, movement, nature, music, drama, expressive elements to provide varied and less intense ways of processing emotions.
      • Aftercare and Support
        • Participants are often provided with follow-up support to help them integrate the insights and changes from the intensive into their daily lives, and or given resources including support groups, therapists’ information, and educational materials to continue their healing journey pending want and need of the participant.
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Workshop

  • Educational Focus: Workshops are typically designed to educate participants on specific topics, skills, or techniques.
    • They are more instructional and informational, can cover a range of stressing topics but not to the extent of needing 2 or more days to acknowledge and process like intensives.
  • Interactive and Practical: Often includes interactive elements like exercises, discussions, and practical applications to help participants learn and apply new concepts. Hands on learning and engagement encouraged
    • promote interaction and engagement, where intensives can be in a group setting but focused on self-improvement with minimal group engagement.
    • Pending the topic may be self-improvement focused on a lighter level then an intensive.
  • Short-term: Usually lasts for a few hours to a couple of days, making them shorter and less intensive than therapy intensives, less deep into participants personal issues.
  • Goals: Aimed at providing knowledge and tools that participants can use in their personal or professional lives, such as stress management, communication skills, or mindfulness practices.
  • Facilitation – Led by professionals who are knowledgeable in the workshop topic but not necessarily trained therapists.
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Support Group Led by Professional Counselors

  • Peer Support: Focuses on providing a supportive environment where individuals can share experiences and offer mutual support.
  • Facilitation: Led by professional counselors who guide the discussions, ensure a safe and respectful environment, and provide therapeutic insights when necessary.
  • Ongoing Meetings: Typically meets regularly (weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly) over an extended period, offering continuous support. May be emotionally and or educationally focused to focus on learning skills and applying them in daily life pending the provider or other professional leading the meetings.
  • Goals: Aimed at reducing feelings of isolation, increasing understanding and coping strategies, and providing emotional support. Common for issues like addiction recovery, grief, chronic illness, or mental health challenges.

Summary

  • Therapy Intensive: In-depth, personalized, and concentrated therapeutic work for significant progress.
  • Workshop: Educational, interactive, and practical sessions focused on specific topics or skills.
  • Support Group: Ongoing peer support with professional facilitation, focusing on shared experiences and mutual support.

Each type of session serves different purposes and can be beneficial depending on the Facilitator and needs and goals of the participants. Hopefully this description can help you determine what might be right for you when searching for a group to meet your needs! Feel free to reach out if you would like help finding a group as Samantha has networked with many professionals throughout Wisconsin and has accessibility nationwide to other locations.

Differences between Intensive Workshops and Therapy Groups ( make social posts from this )

Within mental health and personal growth, individuals often seek various forms of support and interventions to navigate their challenges and improve their well-being. Two common options that people consider are therapy groups and intensive workshops. While both serve as valuable tools for self-exploration and development, they differ in their formats, goals, and approaches. Here, we will explore the differences between therapy groups and intensive workshops to help you better understand which option may be most suitable for your needs.

Therapy Groups:
Therapy groups typically consist of a small number of individuals who come together regularly, facilitated by a trained therapist or counselor. These groups provide a safe and supportive environment for members to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and to gain insights into their challenges and strengths. Therapy groups may focus on specific issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship issues, and members often share their experiences, offer feedback, and learn from one another’s perspectives.

Key Characteristics of Therapy Groups:

  1. Regular meetings over an extended period (e.g., weekly or bi-weekly sessions).
  2. Led by a trained therapist or counselor who facilitates discussions and provides guidance.
  3. Emphasis on sharing personal experiences, processing emotions, and gaining self-awareness.
  4. Opportunity for members to receive support, feedback, and validation from peers.

Intensive Workshops:
Intensive workshops are typically short-term, immersive experiences that focus on a specific theme or goal, such as stress management, communication skills, or personal growth. These workshops may last anywhere from a few hours to several days and often involve a structured curriculum, experiential activities, and group exercises aimed at fostering insight, learning new skills, and promoting personal transformation. Intensive workshops can be intense and emotionally challenging, but they also offer a concentrated opportunity for deep exploration and growth.

Key Characteristics of Intensive Workshops:

  1. Short-term and immersive experience, often lasting a few hours to several days.
  2. Structured curriculum with specific goals and learning objectives.
  3. Incorporation of experiential activities, role-playing, and group exercises.
  4. Focus on personal growth, skill-building, and transformative experiences.

Choosing Between Therapy Groups and Intensive Workshops:
When deciding between therapy groups and intensive workshops, it’s important to consider your specific needs, preferences, and goals. Therapy groups are ideal for individuals seeking ongoing support, deeper self-exploration, and interpersonal connection over an extended period. On the other hand, intensive workshops are well-suited for those looking for a quicker, focused experience to learn new skills, gain insights, and jumpstart personal growth in a shorter timeframe.

Ultimately, both therapy groups and intensive workshops can be valuable resources for individuals searching to improve their well-being, develop self-awareness, and cultivate meaningful connections with others. By understanding the differences between these two options, you can make an informed decision that aligns with your unique needs and aspirations on your journey toward personal growth and healing.

Make sure to check out the new Intuitive Painting Workshop here!

Going solo

Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.

This was probably the riskiest thing I have ever done. Adulting, living on my own in a one income household, deciding I needed to take better care of myself by being my own boss with my own rules. This meant losing work covered health insurance, expecting inconsistent pay and suddenly a lot more work on my plate-not only being the therapist but also the boss, HR, administrative assistant, biller, anything else I hadn’t even thought of up until that point. All the hats that make up an office/clinic.

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I definitely do not regret it though, despite it being a lot of hats and a lot of work, its fulfilling and I know I’ve helped a good amount of people. Do I somedays want to go work at Petco or Starbucks, absolutely, and only do simple things and let others take control… yes, I have those days, but they are few and far between.

How does a therapist do self care?

How do you unwind after a demanding day?

Every-once in a while I get asked about my own hobbies or self-care. A popular question is does a therapist have a therapist? Yes, a therapist is human top, and as we hear all of the stories around us it’s important to engage in our own therapy and forms of self-care.

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Do I doom scroll or hyper fixate on things like art supplies and have about 20 projects going at once? Of course! All in moderation of course, finding that balance for myself as I promote to clients. Somedays are harder than others, so figuring out a routine and not beating myself up if I can’t stick to it.

I make sure to take care of my pet’s needs, as animals are sassy and they technically own my home, and then make sure I’m fed and comfortable. A goal this year is to read more and work on some of those 20 projects listed above. I’m also trying out new puzzle games and brought out sudoku books, I’m terrible with math but I love me a numbers style organization puzzle!

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On days I’m home before dark and its good weather I take the dogs for a walk, for both them and me and schedule weekly walks with my meetup group “walk and talk Fox cities meetup!” Now that the weather is hopefully getting nicer. We are established on meetup.com and newly on Facebook! Check-us out sometime.

What do you do for self care?

How would you improve your community?

One way I would like to help improve my community is offering events. I recently came across “paint parties!” And have rediscovered my old passion for painting and playing with color.

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It reminded me that since becoming an independent therapist that I’ve had many requests for private art lessons- it was an added benefit to those that I was also a therapist, however those individuals didn’t want to pay for therapy and as I’m not a teacher those situations did not work out.

So!! Since finding these “paint parties”, over the last two months I connected with an organization and joined a membership which allows me the rights in sharing and selling their designs and have been actively involved in their training to teach me how to teach you! I can provide mobile paint parties, online paint parties, in person at my office parties, and sell art kits to send to you in your home!! These are not therapy groups, these are fun classes to enjoy the relaxation art can provide.

At each event I would have visual and written directions, a pre-traced canvas- wooden craft piece, plant pot or ceramic item pending the hosts choice, paint, brushes, aprons, and other miscellaneous items ready to go.

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All registrants would need to do is preregister for the event and show up with a desire to have a fun time with friends or come solo and want to meet others! I would have small selection of simple beverages and snacks available for small donation for those who’d want a little extra.

Hosting groups of paint parties is a fun adventurous way of having a night out and coming home with something super awesome or cute- maybe even a gift for someone if not a gift for oneself.

While I can host general community paint nights, hosts (not me!) can choose to have a theme- ladies night, sleepover, birthday party, fundraiser, mother daughter night out, etc.

…. As painting isn’t for everyone…

I do currently host a “walk and talk fox cities meetup” group that is slowly getting started as the weather clears up. You can now find us on Facebook or meetup.com.

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Look forward to meeting you one way or another! It’s nice to meet others with shared interests and have a variety to choose from, this is something I can offer my community.

Life Coaching Services!!

Featured

Have you considered coaching and how it could improve and empower your life?

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Do you find yourself looking back, sensing a lack of fulfillment and purpose, or grappling with low self-esteem? Has the demands of work overshadowed your authentic self? Samantha is now expanding her services as a certified Clini-Coach®. Leveraging her background, Samantha can guide you in reconnecting with your true being, support you in rediscovering your authentic self, and assist you in reclaiming a sense of fulfillment and purpose.

Trained in coaching methodologies, Samantha integrates client-centered, narrative, humanistic approaches, and trauma-informed care. As a certified Clini-Coach®, Samantha values clients who independently initiate communication without prompting, fostering a balanced interaction that respects both client needs and healthy boundaries. Scheduled or flexible check-ins will be part of the collaborative coaching approach, ensuring a mindful connection without overdoing it.

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Creative expression is presented as an optional opportunity for growth and challenge within your unique coaching plan. Choose from individual session packages, group options, and access to Voxer for questions between meetings. Rooted in authenticity and guided by values like transparency and achievement, together, we’ll uncover and achieve your aspirations.

Meaningful work is at the heart of Samantha’s coaching approach, fostering self-respect, growth, and compassion in a supportive exploration of your potential. Ready to take the first step? Samantha values your feedback and, in exchange for reviews, is pleased to offer a discount on coaching packages. Contact her today to discuss how coaching could be beneficial for you.

One option Samantha is working to provide are Therapy Intensives, Workshops, and Support Groups. Samantha may or may not collaborate with other Coaches pending the size of the group To Summarize:

  • Therapy Intensive: In-depth, personalized, and concentrated therapeutic work for significant progress. May be Multiple days in length – Samantha Hopes to offer them on Weekends and keep them reasonable length to allow participants and her time to decompress before the beginning of the next work week- Usually Not reimbursable by insurance
  • Workshop: Educational, interactive, and practical sessions focused on specific topics or skills.- Limited to 1-3 hours, May be evenings or Weekends to work around Samantha’s current individual case schedule.
  • Support Group: On going peer support with professional facilitation, focusing on shared experiences and mutual support. Limited to 1-2 hours once or more a month pending need.

Please keep in mind that clients cannot sign up for both coaching and therapy services simultaneously. Coaching sessions operate on a cash-pay basis, while therapy sessions can utilize insurance benefits, out-of-network insurance benefits, or cash-pay options. Samantha is committed to creating a personalized and supportive journey for you. Begin your transformative experience by reaching out today.

Late night mindful moments

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?

I saw this prompt pop up and figure I can’t sleep so why not respond?

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My middle name is Jean, after my mom. She named me Samantha after “bewitched Samantha Steven” hoping it would bring me a little magic in my life, and thought it was a beautiful name. my mom and I haven’t always been close or seen eye to eye, but we have our love of arts and crafts and animals, and I’ll always be happy to carry her name with me wherever I go. She inspires me to keep trying with my art and trying new things and for that I am grateful ❤️

Mindfulness, Meditation

“Case of the mondays….”  I am feeling this today! I was looking at a new app over the weekend I found in one of my therapy forums, called “insight timer”.  As some of you might see already on my business page, I did a “Facebook live” recently with two guided mindfulness scripts.  “Leaves on a stream, and eye of the hurricane”.  I am not sure how to connect that live with this blog, but you can access it here.   In these scripts I read out loud and you, as the reader can close your eyes and imagine being in the “story”, for example, sitting by the stream, seeing thoughts float by as leaves, or the chaos of all the thoughts and feelings rushing around you, while you are safe in the middle of the eye of the storm. 

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With Insight timer, it has probably about a million meditations, nature sounds, white noise, drumming sessions, and much, much more for free to experience on your own time.  I highly recommend looking into it, especially as it’s a free app.  Mindfulness and meditation can be as short as 30 seconds, or as long as you need it – some half hour. I recommend starting small, fitting it in while you are eating or preparing for bed, or waking in the morning.  For some it can be uncomfortable due to the busyness of our lives and suddenly sitting and listening, not “doing something”.  That sitting—–> is self-care, and it’s important to remember that. ” Take time to smell the flowers” or listen to a meditation, or nature sounds. Comment here what is helpful for you!